I want you to be happy. Really happy. I want you to be able to harbour so much love, joy, freedom and happiness.
But can you?
Do you really want it?
You might be thinking, what a stupid question! Of course I want happiness. Doesn't everyone?
And the answer to that might surprise you.
In today's episode of the menopause mindset podcast we discuss something called Cherophobia or fear of happiness.
We look at how it shows up, why it's in your life, what you can do about it and the consequences of not dealing with it for you and your menopause transition.
So if you're ready to improve your mental and emotional wellbeing, then this episode is your you.
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Childlessness can be a black cloud for people approaching menopause and you'll notice it has been missing from this podcast. There's a reason for that. It's because, up until now, I had no idea how to talk about it (and I'm childless!) So can you imagine how people WITH children must feel?
We skirt around the edges or worse still unconsciously insult and shame childless people with 'bingos' like 'oh well, you could always adopt'.
Not many of us have the vocabulary to talk about childlessness empathetically, because we have been marinaded in something called Pronatalism (which you will learn about in today's episode).
Jody Day is an insightful philosopher and the founder of Gateway Women, a global community of over 2 million, supporting involuntary childless women through their grief.
In this episode we cover:
Being childless at Christmas
Childlessness and childfree as a...
I was hanging by a thread, like a piece of over rip fruit about to fall from the tree and go splat on the floor. Heavy and lethargic. No energy to lift a finger let alone think about what to cook for dinner.
Energy is a precious resource, but the good news is, it's renewable, unlike time. Once time is gone, it's gone, you can't get it back but energy can be renewed. All we have to do is plug back in.
This episode of The Menopause Mindset Podcast is a demonstration of how that is possible.... literally.
The entire episode was improvised from start to finish, not because I was lazy and didn't want to write any notes, but because I've been able to generate so much energy over the last couple of days, my mind was clear and my heart was full.
Since a friend pulled me up on my waining energy levels, I've been making a concerted effort to problem solve this issue and I'm delighted to bring you my musings.
Are you creaking like a haunted house every time you get up from the sofa? Moving around like you’re 101 is no fun (especially when you’re only 45)!
Joint pain & stiffness is one of the lesser known symptoms of peri menopause.
This is for you if:
You’re approaching mid life and your joints are aching more than normal. You’re unaware that joint pain and stiffness is a symptom of peri menopause. You’re worried about joint pain and stiffness and wondering what you can do about it. You’re interested in the underlying emotional reason for joint stiffness.
In this episode we go through 7 things we can do to help.
physiotherapy, the pros and cons.
what type of movement you need to be doing
the underlying emotion imbalance and
we discuss an interesting experiment which highlights how unconscious...
This is for you if you would like to start making yourself a priority
Are you in your 40’s or early 50’s and feel like you’re going a bit mad sometimes? You’re not alone. It could be the onset of peri menopause. The effect of menopause usually starts in the brain not in the reproductive organs and, as a result, massively impacts our mental health. If you’ve been diagnosed with anxiety disorder it could actually be a symptom of peri menopause. If you want to learn more and also find out how you can help, please watch my video it’s 29 mins.