In my twenties, I decided I wanted to learn to ride a motorbike.
It didn't go well.
On the day of my test, it was raining. I fell off the bike just before the exam and promptly decided that perhaps motorcycling wasn't for me after all. I went home, licked my wounds, and put the dream in a box.
Fifteen years passed.
Then life presented me with another opportunity.
This time I had a boyfriend who rode a motorbike, which certainly added fuel to the fire. I signed up for lessons and convinced myself that this was going to be the year.
The problem was that reality looked very different from the fantasy.
The lessons were expensive, it was January, the weather was ice cold and the bikes were h.e.a.v.y.
And whilst nobody likes to admit it, learning to manoeuvre a large motorbike can be physically demanding, particularly when you're a relatively small woman trying to control a machine that seems determined to remind you of the laws of gravity.
But even so, week after week I turned...
Why “Regression” Isn’t Dangerous When Done Right
Every so often, a debate flares up in the hypnosis or therapy world that claims age regression to be dangerous.
You’ll hear people say it with conviction, as if ALL regression techniques belong to one big reckless bucket, as if anyone who guides a client back into childhood memories is automatically playing with fire.
But here’s the thing: when someone says “regression is dangerous,” it’s worth asking, which kind of regression are they talking about?
Because what most critics describe, and what most trauma informed practitioners actually do, are two entirely different things.
Let’s start with the one that gave regression a bad name: memory recovery regression.
This approach, popularised in the 1980s and 90s, often tried to “find out what really happened.” The idea was to dig into the subconscious and retrieve literal, factual memories of past events, sometimes even “recovere...
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