So let’s get personal…
In what areas of your life do you struggle with a lack of confidence and how is it holding you back?
Let’s unpack this a little bit.
Most of us do, to a greater or lesser extent, have a lack of self confidence, because it’s our minds way of protecting us, keeping us safe, so we don’t do anything stupid, so we don’t take too many risks and kill ourselves!
Lack of confidence ensures our survival but it doesn’t ensure our growth!
In order to experience joy, true joy, we need to stretch our boundaries and we can't do that without confidence.
So, did you know that it’s totally possible to have a phenomenal sense of self worth and self esteem no matter what’s happened to you in your life? Having amazing confidence and self worth is completely available to you and for the sake of your finances, your relationships, your career and your health, you need to have phenomenal confidence.
But here's the thing, MOST OF US HAVE A SELF DESTRUCTIVE LANGUAGE IN OUR HEADS.
Do you say things like:
So many people have these feelings about themselves even when they are incredible succesful and beautiful.
And do you know what, this core issue of “I’m not enough exactly the way I am” is hidden behind all kinds of symptoms like:
People who don’t feel like they're good enough will always sabotage every positive thing they try to do for themselves and they’ll end up feeling like they just can’t get anywhere and that’s because of this limiting mindset which has probably come from unhelpful childhood programming which stops them from breaking free and so the same patterns keep on getting repeated which becomes your sob story like:
So the common mistake is that people try to treat the symptoms rather than the cause. So they try to go on a diet thinking that will make them feel like they are enough or they’ll work themselves into the ground in an attempt to earn more money so they can feel like they are enough or they try a 30 day program for giving up alcohol and then go right back to it or they'll heal their broken heart by getting into another relationship without getting to the root of the symptom.
But the root cause of any symptom is always the feelings that
Here’s the key!
When you think those thoughts on a loop you’ll always get the same feeling of worthlessness which is toxic to your body and mind.
So then think about this, what kind of actions do you think those toxic thoughts create? Stress, non action - procrastination and looping failure! So the same thing keeps showing up for you every day and you wonder why things aren’t moving and you get pissed off and you complain.
So my question is: What area of your life are you feeling this lack of confidence around? Health, money, relationships, career, creativity?
How do you then resolve it?
You have to understand where it came from. You see when you were a baby you were born knowing that you were absolutely perfect. You didn’t worry about having having chubby legs or chubby cheeks, you didn’t worry about waking someone up in the middle of the night or on the bus because you needed your needs met and would you scream until they were… that’s how confident you were.
So in Rapid Transformational Therapy what we do is (under hypnosis) go back to scenes in your childhood where you might have thought it was a good idea to code a belief that said, "I don't matter. It's safer and better to stay small, stay un-noticed". We look at those scenes, we dive into the pain of them and then we transform them, because when you’re open like that, it’s very easy to transform using very powerful language based on certain rules of the mind.
So your mind always believes what you tell it, so if something happened to you as a child and you learnt that
guess what, you’ll act out all of thoes beliefs in your adult hood and you’ll do that by supressing, creating illness, creating fears of the future, creating anxiety, depression, toxic relationships, money blocks, infertitlity, the list goes on. You’ll stay stuck because of the internal conflict. On the one hand you’re saying I want things to be different but on the other hand you’re running programs of ‘I’m can’t do this, I’m bad, I’m worthless” and that just creates stasis, paralysis and nothing good shows up for you - if you’re interested in the science check out Bruce Lipton.
I’d like to invite you to investigate where your not enough ness is showing up foryou?
You have to know with lazer beam precision what you want because THAT will be the information that you give to your mind and your mind always believes what you tell it. Trouble is, half of us don’t live in our imaginations enough… we simply are stuck in observing what is.
So YOU have to be the Stephen Speilberg of your life, creating and designing the health you want, the opportunities you want, the income you want, the relationships you want…. you do it by design…. music, visualisation, movement, hypnosis, vision boards, conversations, journalling….. this is where the effort lies, but most of us ignore these things and continue to bumble through life doing the same ole thing.
Here’s the ultimate truth: The Universe will Support You When YOU support yourself. So how are you going to support yourself?
You support yourself by LEARNING THE NEW LANGUAGE OF SELF WORTH because your mind only responds to the words and pictures you give it whether they are real or imagined…. so start to create this new language…. say to yourself:
So if this has got your juices flowing just imagine what a two hour RTT session with me can do once we unlock the reasons why you are the way you are and then transform them using this powerful language to give your brain a massive upgrade, so it’s more inline with your inner being.
Just like your computer operating system needs upgrading, YOUR MIND requires a massive upgrade too. It's called CONSCIOUS ENGINEERING.
So if you’ve pin pointed an issue that you need help with under hypnosis, let's have a chat and let's free you from it. Your time is now.